We can have comparison or we can have awareness of our gifts.
The two cannot co-exist. In order to compare, something has to
be
less than. Comparison, then, comes from a belief in lack. Truly,
the
only thing we can compare is what we are lacking. When we
are present with our gifts, we do not compare ourselves with
others.
Comparison uses the measurement of judgment. That is why when
we compare ourselves to others, we lose sight of our being, of
who we are.
There are so many things we fear we won't measure up to. We live
in
fear of not measuring up to expectations, to each other, to the
jobs we
do, to our parents, to our children, to our own potential.
We say, the
problem isn't that we don't measure up. The problem is,
we get caught
up in comparison, in using the measurement of judgment.
Truly, whatever
we judge, whoever we judge, is of no use to us, for we
have lost sight of
their gifts.
It is interesting that we call our measurement, our comparison
devices,
rulers, for they do indeed rule us. The moment we move into comparison,
we move into judgment; we move off center, we move out of the
awareness
of our own and others gifts.
What if instead of trying to measure up to some standard we could
invite God's best, our inner best to come forth. This invitation
brings all the
gifts forward to be expressed and experienced. What is jealousy
but a
comparison to a perceived lack? What is insecurity but a belief
we must
compare ourselves to another's life, another's accomplishments?
Comparison is a lose-lose proposition, for if you compare yourself
and find
yourself "wanting", you lose sight of what is truly within you.
If you compare
yourself to another and find yourself "better than" you have
lost sight of
the worth of that person.
We invite you to see that you'll never measure up to anything,
for measurement
can never be satisfied; it has its basis in lack, in not seeing
the gifts within
us. It is time to see comparison for what it really is
- it is the place where we
lose sight of the worth within us, where we lose sight of our
connection to Source,
and all the gifts of Source. Our gifts cannot be measured. Who
we are cannot be
compared - it is priceless.
For your consideration ,
-- The Guides
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